Thursday, August 31, 2006

Ready

10:15 P.M. For the first time, I actually feel ready for the next day. I managed to pick p some supplies so that I could feel organized. I have everything ready so that I I know what I am doing tomorrow. I feel like I have enough material to keep my kids busy. The third graders are starting to realize that I will not put up with BS and they are starting to realize that if they tow the line, they will get rewarded. Group A got rewarded today for good behavior for the last 2 days, and for getting their work done. Group B did not. I am counting on one group telling the other, so that they realize that they can earn it. I hope this works.

On a side note, I am glad Isabelle lost all her power on the 4400. I couldn't stand her! Hehehe. Also, Edvish, the new teacher, seems pretty cool. I must admit to being a bit jealous of her schedule. She only has about 20 hours of class time. She is already prepped for about a month for the classes for which they have given her her books. That's not many. Welcome to Korea.

Sunday, August 27, 2006

Everything here seems to take me 3 times longer than it should. I screwed up my computer. Did I mention that I hate it anyway? I am miserable right now and I can't help but wonder WTF I have done. I don't want to be here now, but even if I was going to leave (hypothetical-I don't want to give up), I don't have a home. I am so isolated and lonely and unhappy right now.

*******edited for the worst of my pissy attitude**********

2 Hours, 1 walk, and 5 minutes of online research later, I used a piece of cardboard to get the stupid disc stuck in the drive out. Now, if I can just get the Office suite to stop giving me so many problems!

Friday, August 25, 2006

Just some Updates

Ok, so, the important stuff....

I am not too keen on Korean food so far. Their veggies are very different from home.

As you can see from the picture, some dishes come with some rice and LOTS of veggies. I do not recognize 90% of them. Radishes are popular here, frequently yellow, and I do not know how they are made, but they are sweet. Not bad. For me, preferable to others. Sometimes used in a nice cold soup.

So far I like dagalbi, which is very spicy chicken with thick rice noodles and cabbage, shabba shabba (something like that, anyway) which is beef cooked at the table in a broth with veggies, and tang sa man du, which is a plate of sweet and sour pork dumplings. Lunch is available for free at school, but it is straight up cafeteria food. Occasionally not bad, but rarely good.












Ms. Wan, Ms. Lee, Anna and I (right to left) went to Woljeogsa Temple over vacation. Beautiful scenery, beautiful buildings. No photos in the museum, and I did not take pictures of the Buddha out of respect. It was a story tall, beautifully made and housed (in an ornately painted building like the others). There were candles with Chinese script on them that glows as they melt down, I will have to remember to ask Anna where I can get some of those.

I finally got cable, which was my first experience of descrimination here. They did not want to install it because too many foreigners leave without paying the bill. Mr. Lee, the school administrator, called and arranged it for me. After all that, I barely turn it on, thanks to Korea's killer internet service. It really is very fast and very reliable, and there is plenty to download online.

I had a bit of a delay getting my plane ticket refund. It took a while and 3 of us explaining that when you buy a ticket online in the US, you only get an online receipt. The school did not want to accept that, but as I had nothing else (except my baording pass, which, thankfully, I had not yet tossed) eventually, I got my money.

Even with Ralph and Anna, I am still feeling isolated. Basically, I can barely communicate. It sucks. I am overthinking things at work, putting too much into it, and driving myself crazy as a result. As some one told me, aptly, you can not be an over acheiver here. Extra work is not seen as extra, nor appreciated as such, and may come to be expected as the norm, as has happened with some of the things that the foreign teachers have done as a courtesy. However, being new, I had a LOT dumped on me and expected of me. Even Anna said she thought it was a lot, which made me feel better. I was afraid it was just me.

After I kind of lost it a bit and had to leave the room (only Mr Hong and Ron were there) to compose myself, I think people started to realize that asking me to change up entire plans and expecting me to whip up schedules when I didn't even know the number of lessons in the semester was unrealistic. And it clearly got around, because I found out from another teacher that my co-teacher had heard. She hoped she was not to blame, which she was not, though I was feeling overwhelmed by everyone. If you want a certain lesson planned, tell me that first, before I make a lesson plan from where the kids left off! If you need a plan for the semester, you have to give me a schedule.....you get my drift. It is very Korean. I knew to expect this, but it doesn't make it any easier when I am emotionally overwhelmed. My last job was good training, though, because Adelphia changed their policies every 5 minutes, and if I did not know that, I got blamed for it. Even if the policy change was announced before my shift, on my day off and was never emailed. For a communications company, Adelphia was an epitome of miscommunication. But I digress, as so many people love to say these days.

I have a coffee shop that I like, called Maidu. They are very friendly, upbeat, and it has a nice atmosphere. I guess there is one closer to home, but I do not know where it is, so I take the bus or taxi to the one by Lotte Cinema. I was sitting there looking out the window about 3 weekes ago when I figured out my first Konglish, using one of my books to help me with the words. Lots of things are written in Konglish, which means that if you sound out the Korean letters, they sound like ( or are SUPPOSED to sound like) words in English. I do not have Korean letters set up on my computer, but suffice to say that after many consultations of my book, I deciphered: ALL TIME GAHM RENTA (no "L") which I surmised to mean 24 hour game rental, A.K.A. PC Bang (pronounced bahng). Of course, the graphics were obvious, but I was proud of myself nonetheless! I also heard my first K-rap. It is......upbeat K-style. Ralph and Anna have seen some videos and understand some of the words, and had a good laugh while telling me about it. Ralph thinks is is hilarious that the girls in the videos prance around in one piece bathing suits and that the rappers are in old schools style American cars that you never see on the roads here. They sing about how hard life is at home with mommy and daddy, I guess. I don't think there are many ghetto hardened gangsters here that have to worry about drive by shootings, even from a scooter.

I have tried to get furniture, but there is way too much orange pleather here. Koreans love leather and pleather and orange is big. So is a fluffy purple. I don't think pleather is at all comfy, so thus far the only furniture I have added is my Swedish Poang chair that cost about 30% more than at Ikea in the States. And I had the shopkeeper knock $15 off the price. Ah well. So, want to see my apartment? I am not cleaning it up especially for you!






I've included a shot the road outside the school as well as a shot of the school itself.

I love my second graders-they are excited, happy, and friendly as can be. I am learning their English names quickly. I had 2nd grade Science today, albeit from the Korean "Tips for Daily Life" which is a book that I hate. It is useless, as far as books go. They might as well say, this is your topic, now go figure out what you are going to do, because this book is only the roughest of outlines, a mere suggestion. Besides which, Tips is a social studies type book, not science. Grrrr. Science went well, today, though. Anna sent me some stuff that helped a lot, though I guess they had seen the presentations last year, although I thought they were geared specifically for second grade.

The third graders are a tough bunch. Everyone acknowledges that the third grader immersion class this year is tough. The kids are unruly and don't want to talk to the teacher, pay attention, or keep quiet with each other. I am going to have to get tough on them right away. That's hard to do, because you really have to watch your back. You have to use the other kids as witnesses, kind of, to show that you gave kids a chance, and you have to make them keep each other in line to keep from getting punished. I have been told that you need witnesses, because if a student complains about you, the school will believe the child over a foreign teacher. That is going to be strange for me. We shall see.

Ok all, it is 9 o'clock and time for me to veg on tv or a movie or book or something. Maybe tomorrow I will write about getting caught out in the storm and the cell phone drama :)

Tuesday, August 22, 2006

Many thanks to Bridgett, a.k.a. SpinnDiva, who checks on me via my blog regularly. As requested, I will get some photos up. My current knitting prject got twisted when I joined...grrrr...so I have to undo some and go back to the petals. It's a flower shaped wash cloth. I am not being ambitious right now because I have enough on my plate.

I have has so much to do with school....more later!

Saturday, August 19, 2006

We are currently experiencing the effects of a tropical storm here. Not quite a typhoon. It's quite windy and it has cooled by a few degrees, which will make it a bit easier to sleep tonight, I hope. The brunt of it should arrive tomorrow. No rain, just wind. I think the worst of it is supposed to hit in the south, around Busan. Anna and I are headed to Seoul tomorrow, to hook up with Desi and check out the sights. Hopefully, the weather will not end becoming a deterrent.

Thursday, August 17, 2006

Pictures


So the pictures at the bottom, below Jay, from bottom up are: Me and Dana at dinner at Red Robin with a bunch of friends, Suzzallo Library at the UW, a picture of Jay, Dad and me in front of the Macbook with one of the effects, and Ralph and Anna out on the town one evening in Wonju. I can't remember what we were doing that night, though it no doubt involved some dinner.

So, here's the deal. I left for Washington, stayed with Dana while she partied away for a couple of days, then went to Spokane and saw Pat (left). This is the two of us in his room. I missed im an awful lot, but seeing what is going on in his life makes me very sad. I love him very much, and I want my little big bro to be happy. Clearly, he is not.

Jay arrived at the airport the next day. We all hung out for a bit, then we went to try to see the kids, but Marianne would not let that happen. I left the book I bought last november for thier Christmas present with Pat to try to give to them. I have never had an address to send it to. I cried about that one, I'll tell you that right up front. I miss those kids and I wanted to see them. I haven't been to the west coast in 4 years. There are a lot of things I have been missing.

Killer Washington brew is one of them. Yep, coffee and beer. Make that Coffee and Beer Ooooh, man. I had frappacino mix commin' out my ears by the time I left. I had a great stout from a microbrewery at a waterfront restaraunt with Gini.

But I digress. Back to a more linear story. Jay and I decided we wanted to stay with Dad from the day Jay arrived in Spokane. I had stayed with Pat for one night, but his digs a kinda weird. So, we met up with Dad at the Spokane house, which, last I heard, is under agreement for sale this month. He has completed the purchade of a place in Montana since I left the country, and is now the proud owner of a hydroponic tomato farm in need of some serious work.

We went straigh up to the lake house so that all could cool off. The air cools more there, and it was 100 degree weather (still cooler than the 106 that was rtegular in Wenatchee) and we could jump in the lake, too. Jay and I did that every day.






Well, there is plenty more to tell, but the macbook is getting hot on my legs. Time to cool it off by putting in front of the fan asnd watching a movie. I will try to get some more pics on tomorrow, y'all.